7 of the Best kept Secrets to Success

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One of the Best Kept Secrets to Success

Do you believe in the law of attraction? Do you believe that the power of positive thinking will get you everything you want?

Many people believe that “all I have to do is think positive and the law of attraction will get me everything that I want.”

Wrong!

While I believe in the power of positive thinking and I believe in the law of attraction I know that no matter how positive I think nothing will happen until I take action.

An Idea without Action is Just a Dream

If you want to achieve success in life you need to get the ball rolling towards your desired result. It’s time to put your fears and indecisiveness aside and pursue the reality that you know you deserve!

Here seven of the best kept secrets to success:

1. Know Your Outcome

You can’t hit a target you can’t see.

A goal is just a target you’ve set for yourself. This means to hit your target you need to decide what you want. Decisiveness and clarity about your goals will lead you to success.

If you’re fuzzy about how you see your life in 5 years, or even just 6 months from now, you’ll merely spinning your wheels.

So the first of the best kept secrets to success is to decide on the path that is best for you and go for it!

2. Be Selfish about Your Goals!

To make your goals motivating they need to directly benefit you. You need to stay focused on your goals and let others worry about what’s best for them.

While your success can pull others with you, you cannot wish success on anyone nor can you make anyone else succeed. They have to want success for themselves.

For example, if you want your son to get into Stanford because that’s your alma mater, he’s the one that has to make that call. You can encourage him and support him but you need to allow him to strengthen his own achievement muscles.

Remember, you’re in charge of your own life and the decisions that affect you.

3. Be Realistic

This is another of the best kept secrets to success. Your goals need to be realistic.

You probably won’t be able to lose 10 pounds in two days and you can’t become a black belt without taking lessons.

Make a reality check on your goals so you can allot the resources and the time needed for their attainment.

4. Begin

This is absolutely one of best kept secrets to success. As the old saying goes, “The journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step.”

Once you start you will have the momentum to continue. You will give yourself the inspiration to make the next steps.

What you’ll find is that the first step is often the simplest step.

For example, if you want to earn a master’s degree, research schools that offer your program and make appointments to talk with them. If you want to get in better shape enroll in an aerobics class or find a friend to start walking with.

5. Break Your Goals into Smaller, More Achievable Tasks  

This is another of the best kept secrets to success, and the reason many people never get started on their goals, they see them as too big to accomplish.

As the old saying goes, “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.”

As anyone who has ever completed a large project will tell you, if you want quality, lasting results, you need to break your process down into small, measurable results.

These are results that you can achieve in a relatively short period of time, usually a week or so.  

For example, if you’re trying to lose weight it’s easier to cut fast food out of your diet than it is to cut every “bad” food from your life altogether. It’s also easier to start running around the block that entering in a marathon race.

Small baby steps are vital to your success and sustained motivation to reach your goals.

6. Get Some Training

Another of the best kept secrets to success is leveraging the ideas and experience of other people.  As any successful person will tell you, if you lack experience it’s a smart idea to get training in the field.

Training provides you a shortcut on your path to success.

You can go to the library or download an eBook. Maybe you might want to attend a local class that teaches you how to properly execute your plan. Your investment is often small, even free and the additional information can make the difference between the success you want and failure.

7. Get a Coach

Your chances of succeeding will be much greater if you have the help of a coach.

A coach will help you go through all the above steps. A good coach will also hold you accountable and provide you with feedback. This will help to keep you on track when your will power begins to wane.

Start Putting these Secrets of Success to Use Today!

If your plans are only in your head they will remain a dream. The cause behind this dooming behavior is often complacency, fear of failure, or sheer laziness.

But if you truly want something, you can only gain it by taking action. Only by taking can you gain the happiness you seek.

What if I Fail?

One of the basic tenants of Neuro Linguistic Programming teaches us, “There is no failure only feedback.”

Remember if you fail to achieve your goal, as long as you are alive you can always try again. Being able to say that you’ve given your goal an honest attempt is an honor in itself. Maybe you just need to go at it from a different perspective, one you’ve gained in your previous attempt.

You only have one life to live; with decisive action and persistence, you can overcome every obstacle in your way to achieve the reality you desire.

That is really one of the best kept secrets to success! 

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About the Author

Wil Dieck is America’s #1 Mental Fitness Coach. He is also the founder of Total Mind Therapy©, a system that uses Neuro Emotional Conditioning (NEC)©.

NEC is a system that uses the best of three highly effective processes, Advanced Hypnosis, Neuro Linguistic Programming techniques (NLP) and breathing techniques from Qigong, a Chinese Martial Art, and combines them into one powerful system that can help you make quick and lasting shifts in your thinking, your behavior and, as a result, your life.

His office is located in San Diego,CA.

He has taught hundreds of people in individual and business settings how to use Neuro Emotional Conditioning (NEC)© techniques in both their business and personal lives to discover and use the best kept secrets to success.

Wil is a Master Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner (NLP) hypnotherapist and Qigong Practitioner.

Wil is available for individual coaching sessions and group presentations on how to use NEC or hypnosis and Neuro Linguistic Programming techniques to discover and use the best kept secrets to success.

If you are interested in using Neuro Emotional Conditioning (NEC)© techniques to develop positive mental attitude or for other goals you’d like to achieve then call (619) 293-3255 for your complimentary personalized assessment and action plan. In this session we’ll discuss the goals you wish to achieve and you’ll go away with an action plan packed with information on how to achieve those goals